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Five kinds of arguments that get us nowhere

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There are five patterns of arguing are both particularly common and particularly problematic. Invariably, they end badly.

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Four common problems men and women have when talking to each other

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Men and women are typically not so different. But, when it comes to communication, certain common patterns of communication breakdown do seem to have gendered origins. Here, we explore them.

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Who else wants to know what the point of love is?

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We’ve spoken about what we think love is made up of; for friends, family and lovers. We’ve also covered why our love gets stronger. But I’m sure you, like many are wondering what the point of love is at all. Well, in this article I’m going to tell you (and it might just leave you thinking…)

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Why some people are 'cold', others are 'clingy', and some just can't let go

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Why are some people ‘cold’ and distant in relationships while others are too ‘clingy’? Why do some people have trouble letting go, and others let go too quickly? Attachment theory, one of the cruxes of social psychology, has many answers for us.

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How to make any fight in your relationship work in your favour

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We all fight with our friends, family and partners.Sometimes more often, sometimes less. Bet you didn’t know that fighting can be awesome. It can actually make your relationship better! In this article I talk about how as well as what kind of fights to avoid.

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